Saturday, May 24

Living is not an easy path, and dying is not, either...

  • Just because I made a mistake once, it doesn't mean that I am forever guilty. Just because I said it wrong once, you don't have to judge me forever. You don't have the right to.
  • If you walk away from me, don't expect me to come closer to you. I will walk further away from you.
  • Sometimes sorry is not enough. You have to change. But will you? And sometimes forgiveness is not enough. You have to be able to mend. But will you?
  • I don't care if you call me names, but don't mind if I do the same thing to you.
  • Accept people as who they are, and you will find that you're good enough to be accepted. Sometimes, just accept yourself as who you are, and people will accept you.
  • Why bother if you don't really care. Why ask if you know the answer. Why are you there, when I need you here.
  • If you think you're good enough, don't assume that all people will be as good as you. Don't don't assume all other people are evil either. That doesn't make you are any better.
  • Don't judge people by their appearances. Judge them by their attitudes, because changing appearances is easier than changing attitudes.

Life is complex, can it really be easy?
Or is it me who think of it that way?


p.s:
Tengah serabut dengan macam-macam benda, datang pula judgement-judgement yang membuatkan aku bertambah serabut. People just like to judge, even if they are not judges!

13 comments:

CikJa said...

kalu hidup nie senang.. tak kuar lah istilah ranjau2 kehidupan or liku2 kehidupan.. ataupun.. pahit maut hidupan... just go by flow..

MuslihahR said...

a'aa, erm, benda2 camnilah yg kita blajar utk hari esok, kenang-kenang bila sorang2 dan gelak-gelak bila dah tua2 besok... kalo takda konflik,drama2 pun tak best...salam traffic dr dublin :)

Anonymous said...

hehehe..
inilah yang mewarnakan hari2 kita..
ha'ah..
arini mungkin memandangnya adalah suatu masalah.. esok2? :D

perbuatan menjudge2 ni buruk kalau yg dijudge tu x betul.. tapi kalau betul? cool bukan? :p

iLLy said...

alamak~! terlebih sudah...

betul kanak2 diatas.. it's all about the colors of life..

ingat senang nak kene label sbgi bad influence? mahal tu....

moroka said...

Thanks a lot for the comments, everyone.

_cik ja_,realitinya, going by natural flow memang susah. kita selalu saja ingin mengikut flow sendiri.

cacim pokodot,salam perkenalan dari sini. benda-benda macam ni bila dikenangkan balik memang ada manis di sebaliknya.

aalim,if the judges are those we really love, those persons yang rapat dgn kita, it really hurts. walau betul skali pun, we just don't want to hear something like that from them.

illy,mcm kenal ayat tu.."alamak, terlebih sudah"..tapi di mana ya. :p

iLLy said...

harusla kenal... itu kan tagline penyanyi feveret Aru..

moroka said...

in fact, i first read the tag line from aru's blog. ahaha. :D

Anonymous said...

ya.. setuju sangat tu..
kalau yg kita sayang tu yang judge bukan2.. mmg sakit abis r..

tapi, kalau saling kenal, saling sayang, knp perlu judge eh. tanya je r terus. ekekek :p

iLLy said...

"your family ni money minded betul, materialistic"

pedas berdesik menusuk kalbu sehingga meretakkan hubungan di antara due insan, sbb yg dikatakan materialistic kaki save duit...

smpi akhir hayat akan ku ingat kate2 tersebut..

moroka said...

tepat skali aalim, bernas slaluh di saat aalim bersuara :D

illy,sapekah yang berkata-kata begitu. i don't really mind if people judge me (i know myself better).i might get hurt but if they judge my beloved ones, I might get hurt even more.

but sometimes, orang yang judge tu pun blum tentu btul, kan.

iLLy said...

adelah seorg hamba Allah yang x belajar kat UTP ni. name dirahsiakan atas sebab-sebab keselamatan negara...

sbb die insult family, i could never see him the same light again.

people judge, tapi tp pernah nak tgk underneath the surface.

i judge too, sometimes, when i get hurt, but i usually hold my tongue.

moroka said...

yup, sometimes holding the tongue is far better than talking without thinking. i usually do that too to avoid mistakes in my words :D

h a r i t h said...

hahaha..ramai dah komen..no more from me..fed up wif lots of things currently..hahaha