Rascal Flatts in their song 'What hurts the most' say:
''What hurts the most
Was being so close
And having so much to say
And watching you walk away
And never knowing
What could have been
And not seeing that loving you
Is what I was tryin' to do''
So here it is also about losing. I also think that what hurts me the most are related to losing; losing someone that you love, losing a person you called friend, losing something that you really appreciate, losing your confidence, losing your trust to someone, losing your good health, losing, losing .....and of course losing everything is the most torturing of all. Oh yes, losing weight is also not good for me. I might be sad for that too. :p
I remember someone once said , ''It is not good to keep thinking of what that hurts you when you lost someone or something, because what you have lost might never come back. You better think of how to move on and start anew.'' Is it that simple? Think positively. Don't think about it too hard. The truth is, you will never stop thinking about what you have lost, because it will be in your memories forever. The most important thing is, how you accept the losing situation and how you can control it as a preparation to face the same condition(s) in the future.
So, what hurts you the most?Is it love or is it hate? Is it health or is it wealth?
Masing-masing antara kita pastinya ada cerita berbeza tentang ini, kan.
21 comments:
"It is not good to keep thinking of what that hurts you when you lost someone or something, because what you have lost might never come back. You better think of how to move on and start anew."
a great quote. i dealt with loss before. i lost two of the best thing that ever happened to me due to stupidity. and it ate me up from inside, knowing that it was my decision that caused the loss. now it still lingers on my mind, but i can put my foot forward.
"Sometimes, u need to turn back to know you're going in the right direction, forward"
:)
Agreed. Losing something or someone makes us feel like dying inside, and it is really difficult to get it back alive. lucky you, you can overcome those situations.
i still have something lingers in my mind, and i can not put my step forward for now. maybe i should just turn back for a while. Thanks :D
take your time rosli, like i did... these things takes time. tipu la kalau kate it doesn't affect me now. there's nights i woke up crying because of guilt. tp the fact that there's a new day to look forward to.. and new beginnings gives me this small flicker of hope..
aceywahhh.. dah mule dah illy berfalsafah
what hurts me the most?
when people that i loved being hurt.
illy, i do hope time will heal everything. thanks for ur philosophy. its good. :D
husna,thats great for the people around you. i wish that i have the same care for the people around me.
hurts the most?
byk sangat kalau nk di igt..
i choose not to igt la..
pada masa dihurt tula mungkin terasa gila babas.. time is great medicine :p
do i hurt u? :p euwwww~
btul la tu aalim, better not to ingat. tapi itula..sebab byk sangat yang hurts the most sampaikan ada time2, teringat-ingat la mana2 satu. huhuhu.
ok2. let the time does the great work :D
wow.
you ppl starts to talk like org jiwa duka lara now.
huu.
chill sume org.
me too,hv gone through a lot of unpleasant moments.
but hey,
without sugar and some spices,
ayam kfc is no different with ayam goreng kunyit kt cafe.
without tears and laughter,
life is not life after all.
huhu.
as for rosli, u'll get through "it" some time.i knoe u will.
thanks dayla. hebat2 semua falsafah korang. :D
dayla.. puitis sungguh.. :D
true indeed... but still i dont want to admit it... that rite now.. my it's hurt
otomen kan hebatt!! mane bleh hurt2 neh... hehehe
anonymous, i noe u.igt lagi kat otomen rupanya. hahaha.
actually, i'm not that sad rite now, its just that sometimes i keep thinking of old bad memories.
i agree with aalim, dalila too..
"without sugar and some spices,
ayam kfc is no different with ayam goreng kunyit kt cafe" hehe. Nice2.
What hurts u most?
I thing not only us, but all people outside there have this kind of problems. But, the different is how we facing it. How we overcome it.
Agreed. mmg btul pun, tiap2 orang ada problem, kadang2 problem yang sama je, tapi bezanya whether u can handle it or not.
thanks :D
sume org memberi respons yg positif di sini.
jadi rosli,
byk-bykkan post mengenai hati dan perasaan.hehehehe:P
bykkan? this might be the last post tentang hati dan perasaan. bak kata aalim, x elok diingat2 sangat. :D
pekata dayla plak yg buat post ttg hati dan perasaan. nak jgak baca..hehehe.:D
ye la dayla... bile dayla nak meluahkan hati dan perasaan pule??
stuju2. illy dh pernah buat, dayla blum buat lagi. can't wait to read dayla's post.hehehehe :D
hihi.
entir hati dan perasaan?
mungkin akan keluar jugak
tp tunggu ber-emosi dulu.
ehehe
i'm waiting for that dayla :D
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